Yeah Cali... wasn't ever going to send THAT email. It was more like a fantasy, like the one I wrote to the OW last month. Therapy, maybe. Not a good idea to send.

"I broke up with you so I could PA the OP..." Yes! Again, thanks for affirming I'm not the only one who hears this!

On her way out to the gym a little while ago, she really wanted to know more about "who told me what" regarding the OW and the whole poaching scenario. Of course, I only planted a seed (and nobody told me anything... someone last night just showed me a 22 year old photo of the OW and recalls knowing her in a "former" life, which I did show my W as a "visual accompaniment" to my poaching story.. but there is no story to tell). It has her bothered, and I will just leave it at that. I have nothing more to say, because literally... I have nothing more to say.


Me: 46 Her: 41
M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18
3/26 W and I meet OW
BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring
W goes to stay with OW 6/26
NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16
I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19