Wonka, I did make that much clear. I guess I could have refrained from the poacher story. I know I'm supposed to make it look to my W like the OW is nothing to me. But she really isn't. She's the cause of everything, and I just know she's no good for my W. I also know - in my head - that my W needs to discover this for herself, I can't force the issue. Just sometimes, I lose control. Brush it off and move on, eh?
Me: 46 Her: 41 M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18 3/26 W and I meet OW BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring W goes to stay with OW 6/26 NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16 I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19
