As I'll bet you could've guessed, I think it is a great idea! And I love the way you described the idea behind this thread as all have and are entitled to our own beliefs. I think it is a very caring idea you have. It doesn't surprise me...you are a caring person.
Dif, I just said a prayer for you and your W. I also said another prayer for all others on this board giving or needing help.
Here is a prayer that is intended for someone who has just found out their W wants a separation and/or divorce:
"Dear Lord, my life is ripped apart, and I can’t keep from focusing on the devastation and pain that seem to define my very being. Help me turn to You. No one else knows what I am going through. Amen."
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15