Hello DifRent,

As I'll bet you could've guessed, I think it is a great idea! And I love the way you described the idea behind this thread as all have and are entitled to our own beliefs. I think it is a very caring idea you have. It doesn't surprise me...you are a caring person.

Dif, I just said a prayer for you and your W. I also said another prayer for all others on this board giving or needing help.

Here is a prayer that is intended for someone who has just found out their W wants a separation and/or divorce:

"Dear Lord, my life is ripped apart, and I can’t keep from focusing on the devastation and pain that seem to define my very being. Help me turn to You. No one else knows what I am going through. Amen."

Bob


Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS)
M:14 yrs
T:15 yrs
No children together--3 each from previous marriages
Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14
Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14
Divorce Final: 10/21/15