So, here is another update. We had a big party here at the vacation home place for the 4th of July. There were a lot of people, including H’s drunken buddies and this crazy woman. As soon as she spotted me she came right up to me, gave me a hug and a kiss, and then said that she needs to come to the condo to hook up the TV in the bedroom. My eyebrows went up and I said in disbelieve “you need to do what?” She then repeated that I need to let her know when I’m at the condo, she has the guy who is going to hook up the TV in the bedroom to another dish receiver. I looked at her, smiled and said “Ooookey!”, meaning that I received the information. I was kind of taken by surprise and didn’t know what to say at first. But, I’m not going to let this woman in the condo. And I’m going to tell her that when I see her next time.

I told this to my friends and they were very upset. My male friend said that he already told H to tell this woman to stay away from my face. He said that this is not going to end good for anybody. He told H that he doesn’t need this woman to upset me, because there could be unintended consequences. I think that he is afraid that I get p!ssed and file for D with the intend to device the condo, hehe. I reiterated that I don’t want this woman anywhere close to the condo, when H is not here. My male friend said that she mentioned to him that she heeds to get the keys from him to take care of the TV. I told my friend that I don’t want her in the condo, period. He promised me that he will not give her the key, and that he will tell H again to talk to this woman.

Next day, my GF here brought this subject up gain and we talked about what the possible motivation for this woman would be. Does she want to upset me and drive me away from here? Does she have interest in H (but she is married and seems to be happily married.) Does she want to play games, because she exhausted all the fun things to do here and is bored as he!!? We concluded that it might be the later.

But, this is still very strange. My mutual friends are very upset about this and very worried. I just don’t know if H can do anything at this point to stop this woman from what she is doing. I think he is way too involved in this weird R, whatever it is, some kind if twisted form of friendship (sharing the hotel room, etc.).

So, I’m just going to do what I need to do, relax and enjoy my time.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state