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No, YOU don't leave the home and your children. She is the guilty party here, not you. There are other steps you can take first. Look back at the first thread I posted on help for the newcomer LBH'S with WW. Reviewing it right now will help you feel that a plan will come together.

Board traffic is slow on Sundays. In the morning, things will pick up again.

Reading through it again and again. So much pain. Her too. She is dying inside I can see it. Why would she choose to sacrifice so much for 30 sweaty minutes in a crappy hotel room???

Not for you to figure out right now. I doubt she could explain it to herself, much less you. Focusing on it will only make you miserable and make your DBing harder. Focus on you and what you need right now. Leave the other until after the dust settles a bit and she still shows an inclination to work on things.

Tap that support network now. Do things with your kids. Get out with people.

And, of course, listen to Sandi on this.

Hang tough.

I am prepared to do what I must. It's the watching it continue that I am not sure I can handle or WANT to handle. Having to sit here while my wife steps out for what is now certainly sex outside our marriage. I am not sure I am prepared to make that sacrifice.