Hi Vanillia I really wish you could be an aunt to my kids. Your a very specail Lady and my boys and girls would benefit greatly from such an I redie lady in their lives.
Your kindness and love for you into a situation with H You can call it what you will but a more calculating and callouss person might have seen warning signs where your saw weakness and a troubled H. I would ask to to think more along these lines than others. Your a very good person who tried to offer support and love where you thought it was needed