Toots,

I thought a MLC today. But my H is very depressed and lifeless. He goes to work then back home and spends the rest of the evening watching TV. He go over his brother's occasionally. I don't think he is seeing anyone. But I will research it and maybe I should mentioned this our marriage counselor. But I think he is too depressed to think about anything right now.

Thank you for answering my questions. That was a big help.

I almost made all day without crying until I got home. I received in the mail his anniversary present from me and I started crying. Our anniversary is August 8th. I am trying not to think about that.

I think I might plan a spa day this weekend. I need and deserve it.


H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)