well I was successful at not calling or texting him today. He did text me at Noon asked if i was having a good day. convo went like this
H:having a good day?
M:yes busy but good got a lot done u?
H:garbage lol (he was picking up garbage he works at a park)
m: in the rain frown need to know if you want me to get groceries or no it will have to come from savings?
H:all day so far lol
M I can look at ad and see what cost is lol r u wanting to grill still then or no? (for dinner)
H IDK lol what do you think
M: about dinner or groceries lol
H: grill for dinner? And what do you want to do for groceries
M:ill have to look at add let you know lol well I know you dont want to grill in rain but D7 has been asking so how about griddle inside. I really wanted potatoes and onion with it but i could just do that inside too unless you want something else?
H: (3 hours later) however

I tried to keep it simple pleasant and task oriented. dinner groceries how was your day! I sent a few (5 or less) texts on saturday night mainly good luck racing and to let him know kids and i made it home. but otherwise I have not text him since friday when he was short with me. I did not cuddle up to him last night in bed either. and we sat on opposite ends of the couch for a few hours last night. I did get him a bowl of ice cream when i got mine (i offered) and I did go out to garage and read a book and helped unload racing stuff. otherwise there was little communication yesterday. It actually was not as bad as i expected!

M:34
D:12