Asitis yeh I didn't know if I should tell her but thought she should know , she was such a caring wife with a big heart didn't expect such cold responses...:( so yeh when she texts on Friday she doesn't want me home so I'll be cordial and won't be home when she comes to pick up more of her stuff . Also What do I do about the ring , it's a lot of money.
Remember that she is not the W you knew. She may be again some day, or at least someone more like that person, but during the pain and stress of the sitch, she will not act like the person you knew. This is one of the hardest things to adjust to, because you don't really know them in the present, and so what worked in the past may not now.
On the ring, remember that it may have cost a lot & replacement value might be high, but what you'd get selling it would be much, much less than you expect.
On the charging straight ahead, do you suspect an OM in her life? Was there some big event in her life that really could have traumatized her and caused her to want to run hard and fast?
With no kids in the picture & only recently M, she can push this through fairly fast (I'm not familiar w/ CA law, but if I remember it has a fairly short waiting period after serving petition). It [censored], but you don't know her mindset completely, just what she is telling you and doing. It doesn't mean that she won't change her mind. Just keep detaching, focus on GAL and yourself, and she may surprise you.
Sorry that we can't offer much other than vague encouragement to stay the course, but it's not over until it is.
Me: 50 W:43 S6, S3 M: 12 yrs. T: 17 M is bad & Not happy Bomb Mar '14 S 5 Feb '15 D Bomb 13 Apr '15 (but "no hurry") DB Coach May '15 Wants proceed on D Aug '15 Starting 1-on-1 negotiations Sept '15
