Prowl, as I had mentioned earlier and others keep saying, crying is natural. I am roughly 8 months into the DB thing, I find myself crying once in a while. BUT when this all started, it was a daily occurrence. Things DO get better. You just need to keep saying "I can handle this".

As for social interaction, look into your church (if you don't have one, I suggest finding one that fits your needs), just about every single one has a divorce counseling group. It's not a singles mixer or anything, but a group of people that are going through the same thing.

I used to be very religious when I was a teenager. Sadly, I lost my way and only over the last 7 or 8 months started going again. It took me a few tries to find the right church, but I LOVE the one I go to now. Please consider that.


Me: 38
W: 32
S10 D6
T: 10 (02/2004)
M: 7 (12/2007)
Separation 02/2015
OM confirmed 01/2015,
D mentioned 12/2014
D finalized 9/2016