Going along with what Wonka said, I want to tell something that helped my to stop thinking that way. I understand the pain your in is the worst you have even been in, but it is temporary. Ending things does not end that pain, for all. It may end it for you in a selfish way, but it doesn't stop it. It just transfers it to your children to face the rest of their lives. I had to look at my children and think how can I do this to them? My W did this to me, but that doesn't give me the right to do it to my children.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be
