Even as I read your most recent post, I can feel your impatience seeping through it. Instagram with OM notwithstanding, I get the vibe of "let's just get on with a real M...what are you waiting for?" with your foot tapping on the floor.
In recalling my post-MLC life emotional-wise, I surmise that it took me approximately TWO years to re-integrate all of my "loose parts" like a wrecked 3-CPO. I believe it took Raine's H about 1.5 to reintegrate himself completely.
Mrs. Cali is light years ahead of many former MLCers in that she's attended Retrouaville and is actively engaged in many convos with you about the A along with forging a new M with you. I mean....it has only been, what, about 2 to 3 months into this piecing process.