Hi Cali, I'm sorry to read all of that - Ugh! It's evident that your W does want to try, but she is still having wobbles and isn't maybe strong enough right now to go cold turkey on everything - she gets drawn back in a little.

Hopefully you can see it as a wobble or setback and not a deal breaker. It's not ideal that there is some ongoing 'traffic' there, but it sounds like you made your feelings absolutely clear and will move forward on that basis. You know already that Cali will be just fine, however things ultimately work out...and I think your W is trying to catch up, but stumbling at times.

Thanks for your kind post on my thread. I agree - the British Divorce system needs reforming!

Take care my friend x

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