Can it be another round?

[BrightFuture]

Job, you are probably right again. My mutual friends were staying with me in the condo for two days. I showed them the picture on FB and they didn’t recognize the woman next to H. My male friend asked if it is man or a woman. My female friend noticed that she is a lot older (she said like 70 or something). I guess I was just in panic mode and didn’t really take a good look. After I did, I realized that in fact this woman on the picture looks older (cannot tell the age for sure), and she is also not attractive (hence the comment from my male friend). And it does actually look like a friendly gesture with H’s hand on her shoulder.

I still think that this other woman was there too (she might be the one to take the picture.) I spent the last few days with my friends and neighbors, so didn’t really have time to think much about this woman. The conversation about H came up in a weird way (details to follow in a separate post.) I feel ok today. Thanks to all your comments, I have some confidence that I will be fine.

So look how strong this makes you appear. You did not jump into a R with someone else.

Yes, FY, I do feel stronger these days. I don’t feel the need to jump into another R, even after learning about H’s possible ow.

dejavu2, after all the dust settled with the “news”, I do realize that H is actually looking for ANY R, and the easier, the better. This might be exactly the case with this woman. I also think that it is not going to last. And I actually was thinking that it might be better if H goes through a few of these R, which might help him to get back to the reality and out of his fantasy worlds of perfect, “harmonious” (his dream) R.

Job, I keep reading and re-reading your comments about H following the script to a “t”. I always thought that he was not a typical MLCer. He is normally pretty private about his thoughts and things. I don’t think he realized that the picture would be posted on FB and that I’m friends with a few people on it. But, you are right, he is not as careful as he used to be. And this FB thing too. My male friend mentioned yesterday how H was against all social media and how he swore he would never get a smart phone and never would join the FB. And now he is on FB 24/7 (my friend’s words.) I think now he is looking for connections and wants to be this cool guy who has a great life and does cool things. If I think about it, he is kind of re-entered the teenage years again, with all the fascination of FB, drinking, more partying, etc. In this sense, yes, he is following the script. He is still responsible with the money and not doing angry spewing, which is good.