Like a jigsaw puzzle

[Squiggy]

Let's get goals out first:
1. Get her to spend this weekend down here again.
2. Get more hugs.
3. Maybe have her hold my hand?
4. More laughter (I was pretty good at that this weekend).
5. More talk about solving some problems we will face when she moves back.
6. See about her spending less time on the phone (Facebook), even though she shared a fair amount with me.
7. Make Retrouaville happen (I visited this with her again)

Observations:
1. Lots of "We" talk.
2. Lots of future talk.
3. She got physically closer to me as the weekend went on.
4. Her attention stayed divided between S5 and I, whereas it would have always been on him.
5. She was planning changes we could make to the house.
6. She left her shower stuff here - might or might not mean something.
7. She changed behind closed doors - expected.

Myself:
1. Stay calm, cool, collected.
2. Keep my doubt about sincerity and all in check - I expected to keep second guessing, and I have.
3. One day, one step at a time. Baby steps. Let it progress naturally.
4. Keep being me, for myself, no matter what happens. She has work to do to catch up at this point.
5. Stay on top of boundaries.