First let me say how sorry I am for the situation you are in.
You are getting good advice from Toots and Wet, especially regarding detaching. You mentioned wanting to get things moving in a positive way and there is much that you can do.
It would be extremely helpful to know what your next move should be. Please call me to discuss our program at 303-444-7004.
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