Heather - nearly ten years on, all I can say these guys are nuts.
Remember words, though nice, are cheap. What we need is some follow through with actions showing that they actually 'get it'
Usually they don't, but the thought is a nice one!
I can see he might miss his family, but what is he going to do about it? My xh has been playing nice lately, but sadly, no real change. Some do change, but so many really don't.
