gan 7 - Ants Marching

[gan]

Hey, Cadet. Trust me, there is really no reason for me to be changing my marital status based on the current state of things. The situation is hard to explain. If we were two gals getting together over dinner and having the same conversation, there'd be nothing to it. But because he's a man - and an older one at that - it just feels a bit more muddled. My confusion about the interaction is just as much about whether we can be friends across that divide, as it is about being in an R. Trying to come to it from a place of no judgement.

As for your questions. Yes, I do believe what this man says. It's complicated and I'm not going to go into it here but the circumstances lead me to believe there is next to no chance for R between him and his wife. He's looking to move on, not have an affair.