Hi Being! I certainly remember you though I've changed my name here a few times. First Travelbarb then Barbie Doll now SunFun but it's still me.
I know it takes a while to get to the place you are at - some of us longer than others but that's not the point. The point is - you got there. And in one piece. And now you've taken off the Rose Coloured glasses & can see him for who he truly is/was. I can totally relate.
Congrats on your BA - that's awesome! And overcoming cancer - that's fantastic. Maintaining the good R with your kids/ grandkids is what it's all about. Let the kids & him figure it out. Mine are in a similar situation to yours - they love their dad but don't recognize him and they want nothing to do with OW.
Thanks for updating us. Nice to keep your heart open while living the best life you can. Sounds like you've got it all right!
