I'd ask you if you really want to save this M, given your W's behavior when you most needed her support. I know a lot of people run when something comes up that is really threatening, especially the fear of losing a S or facing their own mortality. Still, is your heart still in this given her behavior during your struggles w/ cancer?
Do you have IC? A lot of issues for you to work on within and without the M.
Use the space & time to explore your feelings on this M.
Me: 50 W:43 S6, S3 M: 12 yrs. T: 17 M is bad & Not happy Bomb Mar '14 S 5 Feb '15 D Bomb 13 Apr '15 (but "no hurry") DB Coach May '15 Wants proceed on D Aug '15 Starting 1-on-1 negotiations Sept '15