Thank you Sandi. I was hoping you would weigh in. I do see my wife in your pages. It is hard to accept. I work as a psychiatric RN on an intensive care unit. I will use those skills today when I meet her. Listening, validation, and I will exude confidence. The plan was, as you said, look hot, dress very well. I have a new beard style I am going to show off. I have lost a significant amount of weight since she last saw me. I will make every effort to seem as though I am moving on. As you suggested, I will not bring up the past circumstances or questions. There is nothing I can do to change that or her behavior. If she brings up the past, how do I respond? For example, if she wants an answer about how I feel about what she did.
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Me: 33 W: 30 T - 12 M - 3 K - 0 BD - 6/14/15 Moved out - 6/14/15
