V, ralphy, mozza, and u-turn. Thanks for the replies. I hope to address each of you in time, but right now I have another question. W has a history of kidney stone. S13 just told me that her stones are acting up. It is 11:30 pm where I am. I am worried that W is going to need to go to the emergency room at some point. I don't know if she will ask me to take her. If she does, what should I do? She fired me as her husband, I don't think it is still my responsibility, but I also don't want to seem callous. I also don't feel the need to do anything for her right now, especially since she is actively engaged in an A right now. This is along the lines of her experiencing consequences. On the other hand, if she does not ask me, or she asks me, but I refuse, she could go with OM, making me look like a ba$tard and OM look like Florence nightingale. She could further use my refusal to help as further justification for her actions. To be honest, I feel a lot of anger and enmity towards her right now. I am ashamed to feel this way, but it is how I feel. So confused.
