I would try to find a safe person to talk to, your spouse is probably not that person at this time point in time.
Ok. So is there a sign or a way to know when it is time to talk to them? I really want to just say- now you are not so angry at me, what is going on in your head? And are you talking to the OW again?
But I don't want to push him further away either. But it seems like he has gone slowly down hill w/ his mood towards me since telling me he was no longer so angry... So I wprryy distance is making him think I not wanting to work on the relationship.
T: 14 M: 12 D: 9 S: 6 BD: 2/18/15 (H affair) Working on marriage: 3/12/15-6/11/15 Broken Trust (my error): 6/11/15 H ring off: 7/6/15; Comm w/ OW confirmed 7/13/15 H wants to work on fixing things: 7/21/15
