New marriage already over -please help me :/

[happy1]

Nothing is 'normal'. You will not feel normal on most days, for a while

It will take time and all you can do is focus on yourself.

Give us a list of things you are going to do to Get a Life (GAL)
Starting with the next time you are invited to an event: you are going to go. And look really good with maybe a new shirt or something California-style.