I continue to move forward with some of my 180's - I read a book about finances, spent a lot of time with D9 and had an nice three day weekend - drama free. Will be doing a GAL weekend without W and kids for the first time in a long time.
From the DB/DR and postings on the board the issue of the EA is solely with W. I mean, it is in her hands if she decides to end it. For over a week I have been acting like her BFF and I have been declining her solicitations to ML.
Since I do not want to be anyone's door mat until we have a heart to heart on the privacy and EA things with me and her are in a state of limbo. I am trying to focus on my 180's, GAL and taking things one day at a time. I just wish that sometimes I had more patients - some of this would be so much easier IMHO.
