Okay, I don't know if the above link worked to my story in newcomers, but I really need some guidance as to my last post there. How do you go about rebuilding your emotional intimacy? We're socializing together, we see each other about 3 times a week even though we're still separated, and we're doing our homework from retrouvaille and planning to attend the follow-up sessions. We're both very committed to trying to save our marriage, though DH will not move back home unless he feels as though he's "in love" again. I wouldn't want him to because I definitely wouldn't want to put our older daughter through that again.
We seem to easily run out of conversation topics and for that reason, I've been planning most of our socalizing to be with other people. I feel less pressure that way. Any suggestions other than what we're doing to rebuild?