seperated 4 months

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Thanks Sandi,

I could use your insight on my sitch regarding the om. Unfortunately I see him sometimes when I bring my d to tae kwon do class (my d, my ww, and om are all in this class together) and sometimes I see him where I work. I was friendly with him as I didn't know what was going on, so how do I act when I see him now.

I did all I could to push my w into this mans arms. My w is with a married man who is in an open relationship because he meets her emotional needs. And then he goes home to meet his w needs. Am I missing something or is this part of her being in the fog. Either way, its not for me to worry about anymore.
My emotions and my brain have finally caught up to each other, and I truly understand the difference between detachment and giving up, because I am not giving up yet.

My w didn't give up for a long time because she truly loved me, and I wont give up yet because I truly love her, but I will let her go now.