Hi Hopeful, I think as long as you are following the DB rules, it is okay to meet. And if there are things you need to discuss about the house and your D, that sounds fine.

But if you are hoping to meet in order that you can push some more, pursue some and have some R discussion, that's not a good idea.

So, why not make this the lunch where you turn up looking great (but not OTT great) and you discuss a few logistics, have a little catch up and avoid R talk completely....that would be a great plan I think....

Best of luck!

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

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