Asitis,
Totally see your point and I appreciate your good natured paranoia. I never considered that angle in the heat of the moment. That's exactly why this forum is so important, a fresh and objective perspective.

I would find it hard to believe that the court would find me at fault for neglect when I called a nurse after the injury. It just happens this nurse is also D4's mother. STBX met with me and decided it was ok to wait for treatment. If anything, she would be complicit in the neglect, especially if she was off to see OM.

Either way, it's all academic. I'm dropping the kids off with STBX in 45 minutes.

Me:35 W:30
D:4 S:1
Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA
In House Separation: 01/14/15
W moves out: 04/05/15
I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15
W serves D papers: 06/19/15
Mediation: 09/16/15
D final: 12/01/15