The W called to talk about me watching the kids this week while she has her medical testing done.

The conversation then turned sour and she wanted me to know what a great time she had with the kids yesterday and how our S11 opened up to her yesterday about past holidays and how he recalled her and I fighting on them. She wanted me to know that S11 had opened up to her because normally he has been the most upset about this sitch and her A.

Then she brought up my EA... She wanted to remind me that both of us were unhappy in the marriage. That I was so unhappy that I went looking for someone else. I tried again to validate her feelings and apologize for my past actions. Part of me wonders if she is saying this because she has basically done the same thing. (Unhappy so she went looking for someone/something else)

Then she always throws in a jab about her entire family getting together for a BBQ today. She knows I really miss these gatherings and she knows it hurts me that I am no longer invited. I don't understand why she does that.


BD Oct 2014
S Dec 2014
D filed Feb 20, 2015
D on hold as money ran out for attorneys and the marital home's future is up in the air

D18
S17
S15
S13
S11
S8