Just got off the phones with the wife after she sent me a picture text that basically said "If you are with someone that makes you unhappy more than they make you happy, it doesn't matter how much you love them, you must let them go. Not because you no longer care but because you are finally putting your own needs and happiness first".
I validated her and told her that I agree that both of us haven't been happy for a while. She says she wants me to go and find someone that can make me happy like I deserve. That there is no trust in our relationship now... I probably did the wrong thing in telling her that the trust could be re-built. But I want her to know that I could trust her again.
I carried on with the conversation longer than I should have as she became agitated and told me that I didn't repect her wishes by wanting to have this discussion right now. I ended it then and wished her a good day.
SIGH...
BD Oct 2014 S Dec 2014 D filed Feb 20, 2015 D on hold as money ran out for attorneys and the marital home's future is up in the air
