Hi Cadet-Hope you had a nice 4th of July.

Thanks for the link to Trustinginfaith's posts. Very helpful!

I have read that somewhere on the forum are the posts of Happyending or Happyendings? (Maybe even happy_ending or happy_endings.) Many people say he gives an excellent description of what it's like inside one MLCer's mind.

Can you please send me the link and/or tell me how to find this person? I have tried to search for the name but nothing pops up. Hopefully this does not mean his posts have not been deleted!


Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced