Originally Posted By: sandi2

Very! Not that she feels a need for compassion or sympathy (especially from you), but she will use it for manipulation purposes. If you feel sorry for her, you become more pliable. When the waywardness consumes her, everything is about herself. Her thoughts and actions are all centered around what is best for her. Some things a WW does is just too crazy to figure it out.


That would make sense. The last time she told me about a medical emergency was the day before mediation. She called to tell me that her father was in the hospital for a heart issue. She said that if we were only going to got to mediation and fight, she didn't want to go at all and deal with the drama while she has to worry about her father...

I mentioned grandpa's heart condition to the kids and they had no idea what I was talking about. WW seemed irritated later when the kids started asking if grandpa was going to be okay.


BD Oct 2014
S Dec 2014
D filed Feb 20, 2015
D on hold as money ran out for attorneys and the marital home's future is up in the air

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