Another question I have is what is with me? I just found this out at 12:00am yesterday. Why am I not more angry? Why am I not plotting to leave? Why don't I hate her for what she has done? Why am I so centered and certain that I want my marriage to work when I just found out my wife had sex with OM on Friday???


Me: 39
W: 38
T-18yrs M-13yrs
2 Girls: 10 & 3
EA BD 5/24/15
Separate Bedrooms 6/12/15
PA BD 7/3/15
Separate Residence 8/8/15