Thank you asitis. I am completely starting from the beginning on the weights. I had put an inch on my chest and a half inch on my arms and lost three inches off of my waist before my cancer diagnosis. Now I can barely do ten push-ups. As I regain my health I believe I will be able to rebuild a social life and begin to detach from W. After a year and a half of hearing about all of my shortcomings I am starting to see that she has a few too. I guess there is just no easy way to detach.
M:53 W:47 M:15 years. S:18 S's: 30 & 28 from previous marriage. BD: 3/14 Divorced January 17.
