From all my posts, I mention how I'm trying to really be exceedingly engaged in the relationship. I'm now going to bed with W, doing romantic things, gifts, help, listening, being available, etc. This is a dramatic change I've made in the past 2 months.
I hear alot of you LD women talk about what dorks your Hs are being and not making an equivalent "injection" of love into the relationship.
How would you respond if your H was doing what I'm doing?
My W wants to change herself but isn't to the point of seeking self-help resources yet. Can you maybe offer insights into what what you would do in her situation. I know this is purely speculative but I'm trying to figure out what the dynamics of this is are.
