Hi hopeful - I think it's a bit like watching a kettle boil or paint dry. If you sit there and watch and watch and watch, it will seem like the longest time.

However, if you move away and do other things, you don't even notice how long the paint is taking to dry. The shift in focus is key. If we are focused on WAS all or much of the time, it is like watching the paint dry - excruciating!

However, if we have managed to shift our focus on to other things, it is far easier to bear the fact that nothing is (or appears to be) shifting within our sitch. So, on that note - putting your H to one side - what lovely plans are you making for yourself in coming months my friend??

xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus