Oh yeah and I should mentiontion that SEx was one of our problems H -hd, me-LD and he felt I rejected him all the time. When he 1st left he said he would never be intimate w/me because of rejection he felt but can i safely say he he turning around if he is initiating sex? We don't do any R talk. When he 1st left he said it is too late blah, blah, blah. should have changed when you had the chance. I will remain hopeful!