I think I can finally agree there is no point in working on a relationship he does not want. He has it easy. I will watch kids take care of house work ect. They can text all day laughing and hang out friday and saturdays. I swear its an easy way out thing. He can go out forget about responsibility and then come home. I do think I am going to pick one night a week that is for me! I will go out or just shut myself in my room. He can take care of everything that day. I need a break too! I did go 12 hours before I text him today and it was a good luck tonight you have a lot of people here supporting you. He was racing tonight. He did leave OW in pits at races and came over and watched fireworks with us. I was suprised. Asked if I needed help carrying anything and offered to take kids home I just told him no. I did ask for a hug today but we got busy loading everything for races and he never gave me. It hurt at first but then I remembered for the time being its whats best it will get easier in time. It seems so wrong to be distant but like other posts i have read if it feels wrong its probably the right thing to do! question though. I was taking a nap today he came in to wake me up laid down beside me and threw his leg over me how do i respond. just act casual like it doesnt affect me? what if he comes and sits with me or lays with me do I ask him to leave or just let him do it and just dont reciprocate? I am not sure I get that part. as he is usually the one that will ask/hint for me to sit with him or he will just come lay in bed beside me or pounce on top of me and cuddle up to me?
