I sometimes wonder if WAH has someone else? We did not have sex for 1st 2mos of separation and now we are intimate. Would he still come home to me if there was someone else. He has been at moms for 3 mos and no sign of other person. Always home, cell phone always available....spends time at our house.....how do I know for sure? Of course he denies when i mention it!
Hi! Im new to this, but read your post & thought I should answer...My WAH has someone else (lives with her!) for the past 4 mos and is still intimate with me...At times I feel this is not right, but I feel we connect in a way like never before. It's really a personal choice - but don't pressure H into answering...you will only push H away. Don't let your mind wander to imagine or think thoughts that you shouldn't ( I know it's hard not to!)...Hang in there!
hi - totally agree, some folks can be intimate, maybe even more intimate, while carrying on with someone else. i was there. only way to turn this around is to db like hell, part of their excitement is our pain, if we act as if everything is cool, the other piece fades in importance... good luck
You were where I am now? what's going on w/your sich now? My H had stooped all of the sweet names, but today I was honey and baby! Good sign? I know, no expectations.My MIL said she was talking to someone and referred to me by my maiden name and he said that is not her last name it is.....which is my married name i thought that was cute. I also told him I would be doing TownWatch and he said if you ever any problems let me know because i would kill someone for you. Is he confused? If there an EA or PA, does being intimate delay his return home? Someone answer...please.
Oh yeah and I should mentiontion that SEx was one of our problems H -hd, me-LD and he felt I rejected him all the time. When he 1st left he said he would never be intimate w/me because of rejection he felt but can i safely say he he turning around if he is initiating sex? We don't do any R talk. When he 1st left he said it is too late blah, blah, blah. should have changed when you had the chance. I will remain hopeful!
