seperated 4 months

[help67]

Thank you again Sandi'

In some way me finding out about affair was a relief as I have not detached.

I have truly done a lot of work theses 9 months, I don't drink anymore, my behavior has changed, and I know now I want a deep emotional, intimate connection, and I do want it to be with my w.

So I wont send that email. Is it too late to do real db'ing now that we are in that friend box. I am listening and really need your help, so besides GAL, detach, an coparent, what else. Do I say anything to my w or do I just act db'ing.