My original post is on Newcomers(no response) so here I am!My husband and I have been seprated for 3 mos..We have a S10 My H han an EA about 1.5 years ago.I kept it all in, never told anyone. I got rebellous summer 03. I had an A for about 2-3 mos. H suspected but wasn't sure. He began being nice to me (real nice in Nov.). I was unresponsive. Holding on to old hurts. Afraid to give in. As soon as I was about to turn around he Announced that he was leaving 12/1/03. When he left I did the usual. He said that he can never trust ME again because he suspects I had an A(no proof) I never told. He said he will never be intimate with me again. I tried to seduce him and he rejected me. 2 weeks later he seduces me! What is goin on here? Since then e have ML 3x's(yeah)! I stopped calling him for about 6 days and he called me and said let's go file for a D. I said That is not what I want and I will talk to you later. That night he was in my bed? Is he confused or what? Tonight we had a Town Watch Mmeeting aand I told him that I am going to be aprt of Town Watch and he said if anyone disrespects you...let me know. I thought that was sweet. He made me feel safe. Are these good signs? Oh Yeah, he also said that the reason he had the A in the 1st place was because of not enuff sex and tired of rejection. Is it a good sign that he now initiates sex? Ideas and Help..............Please!
