My fever spiked when I got home from Wednesday's surgery. And I am in some pain.

My Mom and W are double-teaming me telling me what I should do. And sometimes I can be a stubborn arse, especially when people are pushing me, I push back.

W is especially bugging me. Several texts yesterday getting an update on me. Three phone calls, all of which is fine. But then in our convos she's calling me "her ex", which is annoying as all get out. Play that game with your friends, not around me.

She said that she would come over today and visit me to make sure I am ok. I would prefer she stay away, but my days of controlling my W are long since passed. I guess this post was a "vent", so venting is over. Happy 4th to all of the American posters here on DB.


Me-54 yrs; W: 50 yrs
4 kids- D: 22,20,19; S:15
"Trial" Divorce: 04/14 - 6/14
Separated: 06/2013- divorced 08/2016

“The strongest of all warriors are these two — Time and Patience.” War and Peace