I have gone back and read some about your sitch. Like you, my S is also in the house. Seems to be rare in the MLC world!
I laugh out loud at a lot of your posts. Love the idea of getting drunk at w's work event and explaining the sitch at home!
We were at the beach w/kids and others yesterday. We drove separately. When H went to leave on his own, one of the guys said "you guys drove separately?!?" Traffic and parking are a nightmare this time of year. It was embarrassing. I left H to flub through an answer.
Wish I could've just said: oh, H is having his MLC right now. Anyone else in MLC can carpool down with him!
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced