Turns out the horrible L letter wan't a draft, the idiot had sent it. I've told him not to do that again.
WW's L's have been in touch. Interestingly they are accusing me of not negotiating reasonably. Ok, what negotiations? Every time she's made an offer to buy me out before I get a chance to consider it properly she moves the goal posts.
Anyway, I will respond to my L with a bit of history that hopefully he can use to respond that not only am I being reasonable but also amicable.
It's S9 that's always going to be the sticking point. My L and I want him home. She of course won't allow that and considers herself to be the primary care giver. This was not the case pre BD. This point needs to be addressed.
Apart from that, yea, were moving towards D.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.