Should I also sometimes leave without saying anything. It kind of feels like playing games or doing the whole tit for tat thing? I would never normally behave this way. Some advise this as a 180/adding mystery, I know. Thoughts?
No! If you enjoy having him keeping you informed of his whereabouts, then you do the same.
But, continue giving him time and space... LOTS!
Do this and he'll be less likely to leave, and more likely to maintain connection with you.
You sound like you are in very good shape, considering what's going on with your H and M. Good for you!
Last edited by ForeverYoung; 07/04/1505:40 AM.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
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