After I got home tonight, I texted my W to see if she would be coming home at all this weekend... so I know whether or not I should bolt the front door. She responded... hours later... to tell me she is going "out of town" and won't be sleeping here till Monday.
She's not going "out of town." She's sleeping at the OW's house. Which she's done several nights this week anyway, and which I have wondered why she hasn't done more often.
Irritates me on the one hand, but I'm glad on the other. Spend all that time together, please! Crash and burn...
I texted back, admittedly with a bit of snarkiness, "Enjoy your time out of town (or rather, at least, out of the bounds of Raleigh city taxation).
(I know the OW's house is in this district, since they just sold it, and my W can't stop telling me these sorts of things.)
Eh... I am such a great example of someone who isn't perfect, and especially who isn't perfect when it comes to DB.
But all in all, I got the sense something was a bit off with her today. In a good way, for me...
Patience...
Me: 46 Her: 41 M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18 3/26 W and I meet OW BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring W goes to stay with OW 6/26 NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16 I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19