In AM H seemed to be testing me; I really do think he was trying to pick a fight. He has been very angry and I think he wants a reason to pin it on me. I acted as if and he actually said hello cheerfully-wow!!
Question: I know they test to see if changes are legitimate. Are there other reasons? Any other logic? H really seemed to want me to react and circled back to same issue.
Some good:he was doing some paperwork and instead of doing it in his room he did it in the dining room. He faced out and stayed for a few hours! I played music that I used to listen to in college. It brought me back to such happy days! I also played Monopoly with the kids, then went to movie. Despite the bumpy start, great end. PMA gave me some control!
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced