End of another week and thought I would give you an update
H told ow the text was me asking for his help with s18 - which technically was not a lie, only that happened a few days before her discovery!
She said she accepted that we have to have contact about our c but she is not happy we talk about anything else and it's not normal ex behaviour for me to be friendly towards him and him with me .....ha ha ha, hilarious, she knows her man so little.
By Wednesday I was over the game, done, finished. So when he text me and said that she sees me as a threat I replied
"she has a point; if you look back over recent texts between us they are cheeky bordering on flirty, this is not normal ex's communication. I don't feel that us being friends is going to work any longer, as any future relationships you have will always see me as a threat"
h replied - "there is only one future relationship I am interested in and us being friends is kinda important in that one x"
I replied "nice answer. Get out of your current one first huh"
Yesterday (friday) I got another text from h
H - Work going great, I am working on some exciting new projects. Home is ok - I had the talk last night, all cool, calm and collected at the moment, she is moving out when she returns from visiting her brother next week x"
I replied, just saying that I am pleased work is going well and happy for him that she has accepted his decision this time.
So now the ball is firmly back in his court. I need to make sure we don't go too quickly for both me and his sake - its easy to get caught up in the "romance" of it all and not see the bigger picture. Baby steps and lots of time. Thankfully we live in different places so we have to take things slowly, start with being friends again, getting to know each other to see if we even like the new versions of us - obviously there is a connection there but we need to establish if it is just a case of history and familiarity or is it true love and desire to be together.
2 days off starting tomorrow - I am going out with a g/friend on Monday, she is going to take me to all the good op-shops. I just love em' - one persons trash is another persons treasure.
