Matt777 i forgot to mention. it seems so weird not telling him where i am going as he usually never asks what I am up to I usually just tell him! well for whatever reason today he asked what i was doing. I just said not sure yet. nothing more! I am also confused on doing what works. in the beginning we are always best friends inseperable talk all the time cuddle all the pursuing stuff. telling me how wonderful he is amazing ect. now i am supposed to pull away seems so weird. then i got hit with reality and everytime i have done just that not talked to him acted like i didnt care as soon as the other relationship ends he comes right back apologizing. I WANT it to be different this time. I want him to come back and WANT to work on the problems not just sweep them under the rug and try again. it always fails. so pulling back slowly or just do a 180? helpful hints due to us living together?
